Older Men

Richard Burgi

I think I must be aging normally because I have always liked guys about 10 years older than me and that seems to continue as I age. In other words, whereas 10 years ago I liked guys in their 30s, now I like guys in their 40s.

Case in Point: Richard Burgi is on Desperate Housewives and I didn't think anything of him until recently when he had his shirt off. Whoa. Dude is built. All the other guys on that show are either fat like gay Matt and Carlos or too lean & scrawny like James Denton. (BTW, WTF happened to him? He was nice and beefy in the beginning now he's trying to keep up with Ana Hatcher or something.)

Anyway, Burgi popped up in "In Her Shoes" as a cad as well and I really like him.

Now, don't get me wrong: I'd also be pretty happy with Ryan Reynolds, Chris Evans or Christian Bale. But especially if they were 10 - 15 years older...


Ryan Reynolds


Chris Evans


Christian Bale

I also started noticing a lot of built older guys recently. There was this one guy in my gym who is majorly built but a lot older. By a lot older I think probably about 55 or so. That is good news because when I was very young, men in their 50s were not built. Unless they were weird military-fetishists or lean and leathery. This is a new phenomenon. I think I have a lot to look forward to.